OK so this is going to be a little long winded here today because I felt the need to respond to a comment that was left on my post the other day regarding my trip to Walmart.
First a little eye candy for those expecting it and then you can either read the comment (in black) and my response (in red) or you can move on with your day.
I don't blame Wade for not being happy with you.
I sure hope when you have a bad day I'm around to see it, 'cause quite frankly I wouldn't give a damn! And I wouldn't expect you to. Especially if I am the person waiting on you.
I'd expect that you would smile at me, even if your hair was on fire.I would smile at you because that is part of my job but I do hope that you would extend me the courtesy of attempting to put out the flames
have no clue about the girl, what's going on in her life, her family,
her friends, her living arrangements, her health... for all you know
perhaps she's hearing impaired. You are correct I know nothing about the girl. I'm not there to become acquainted withthe stores employees. I'm there to spend my hard earned money in their establishment be it a store, restaurant or any other type of business. Maybe the girl was hearing impaired. I don't know. I AM hearing impaired but because I make eye contact with my customers I CAN see their mouth moving and know that they are speaking to me. If I don't hear them I politely ask them to repeat what they said.
But all YOU care about is getting a smile while Wade is making small talk with a young girl.
a grip, as I said, you know nothing about her, not one iota! and you
have the audacity to mumble and sneer as you walk away. You didn't even
have the guts to say it to her face. You stand there, listen to Wade
joke away, and the poor girl has to put up with drooling older man
making pathetic jokes, advances, flirtation, while YOU the wife expect
the girl to SMILE at you.I do have the guts to tell the girl to her face, however I felt that it would cause her further embarrassment since there were customers in line behind me. I felt that it could be better handled in private through her supervisor. You are making an unfair assumption regarding my husband and his remarks. Without knowing the FACTS you assume he is making sexually explicit and inappropriate comments to a young girl. Let me set you straight. He was joking to her that the store should provide reading glasses to older men that can't see to read the credit card machine.Let me also say that in the past I have had male customers make pathetic jokes, advances, flirtation to me and I politely smiled and walked away. If a situation arises that can't be handled courteously and politely a manager should be called to intervene
Before you arrived at Wal-Mart, how
many other men had joked with the girl? I presume since you felt the
need to complain and perhaps get her into strife you do have all the
FACTS and STATISTICS of the entire situation.I don't know but again I'm not entering the store to become acquainted with the employees. I'm there to do my business and I expect good, friendly and polite customer service.
Are you a know it all? Are you smiling while you're reading this? Oh, well, if not too bad!No I'm afraid I don't know it all but yes I am smiling while I'm reading this because it's great that people can share their opinions freely. I would have responded to you directly however your comment came through as no reply and there was no where to contact you
mean. You're horrible. You're gutless. People like you who carry on
like you did all because you didn't get the recognition you wanted...
Pathetic!I have been accused of being mean but never horrible or gutless. In my job as a manager in a retail establishment, sometimes it's necessary to be tough to get your point across. I always emphasize to anyone working under me that the CUSTOMER comes first. They are the reason we are there. As I said I wasn't carrying on or ranting when I went to customer service. I stated the facts politely and left
I hope you have learnt something from this experience, and will try to be nice without EXPECTING SOMETHING IN RETURN. I frequently do nice things for people and I never expect anything in return.
Seriously, it's people like you that tip others over the edge. Your snide remark if heard can do a lot of damage!!!
If you speak about a stranger behind her back, then complain, it makes me wonder how you treat the people you do know. I treat people as kindly and as fairly as I can. I don't treat anyone any differently than I would expect to be treated by them. And YES, if I acted the way that girl did and a customer was not happy about it I would expect her to let someone in authority know. It's only fair
Perhaps, it was really you who was having the bad day, and not her.No, I was having a very good day.
BE NICE, BECAUSE EVERYBODY IS FIGHTING SOME KIND OF BATTLE.
and you don't have all the FACTS.You are correct, we all have our own battles and struggles in life and I am NOT the only one here who doesn't have all the FACTS!
I do hope in the future should you strongly agree or disagree with anything I have to say here you will continue to share your opinions and I do thank you for stopping by.