Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Just me




I keep catching myself saying "we" and I stop and realize there is no more we, it's only me. So now I need to learn how to be me.

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  1. Just take each day Anne. I may have to face this sometime, I just hope its not too soon.
    Briony
    x

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  2. You will always have the memories & happy times of when it was 'we'. A new chapter has opened now.

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  3. I have heard others say it takes a long long time to become a me not we. hugs as you learn.. I like what Anni said, you will always be able to say we about memories.

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  4. I just googled when we becomes me and found a blog about it
    https://whenwebecomesme.com/

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  5. Becoming 'just me' takes some getting used to.

    Love, hugs & prayers for you dear Ann

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  6. It will come. But you know, pronouns are all over the board these days, so just roll with it. ;) I hope work went well yesterday.

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    1. I'm getting good at rolling :)

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  7. And what an experience that will be - with it's high and lows and bumps in the road. Your experience will not be like anyone else's - embrace it all - feel all the feels - And don't forget to laugh!

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    1. They do say laughter is the best medicine

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  8. You'll do it though. It's how you roll. I've no doubt you'll figure out where and what you want to be.

    Have a blessed day, my friend. Big healing hugs to you and tons of scritches to Gibbs. ♥♥♥

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    1. Yep, I've learned over the years to forge ahead

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  9. Just one day, or even one moment, at a time. You will get there, and you will always have your memories. :: hugs ::

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  10. Bless your heart... It will just take some time --maybe lots of time... Just keep putting one foot in front of the other --and try to stay positive thinking of the good times.
    Hugs,
    Betsy

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    1. Thanks Betsy, someone asked me today if I was doing ok and said yes and that being ok was the only option I had :)

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  11. It will get better you are still in the adjusting stage, still grieving stage. It will take time to realize that its just you now. Bless your heart hoping that time flies by for you .

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    1. Thanks Pam. Each day will bring new challenges and a little more strength to endure

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  12. ((((((((((((Ann)))))))))))) Lovingly, Andrea xoxo

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  13. It's okay to say we. He is in your heart. I just keep shaking my head thinking how could I ever make it through what you are going through. I know life goes on and we have to trust in God's plan for us even when we don't like it.

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  14. My heart goes out to you, sweetie. You are in my prayers.
    Connie :)

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  15. It has been over a year for me and I am becoming ok now with saying "my" house, and "I", but often switch to "we" when I talk about things we did together. Take as long as you like and need for each step in healing.

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  16. We was good. Me is good. You'll figure it out.

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